Psst—you over there. Guess what? We're going to talk about orgasms.
The pursuit of sexual pleasure is a key motivating factor in sexual activity. Many things can stand in the way of sexual orgasms and enjoyment, particularly among women. These are essential issues of sexual well-being and gender equality.
For many womenhaving one orgasm during sex can be an uphill battle, so the idea of achieving multiple orgasms might seem like the stuff of fiction. But sex expert Tracey Cox said women are more than able to have multiples. Because we hate feeling left out, and National Orgasm Day 31 July is fast approaching, we asked experts how to improve the chances of having multiple orgasms.
Let's get something straight: Having multiple orgasms isn't some exotic skill; it simply means having more than one peak during a single sex session — which could mean within minutes, hours, or an entire evening, says REDBOOK Love Network expert Lou Paget, author of The Big O. And it's easier for women to have multiple O's than for men because the female body doesn't go through a post-orgasm recovery period, meaning we can stay aroused longer and get heated up again and again. Want to give it a try? Follow these steps — alone or with your guy — and enjoy the sexploration!
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But you might be surprised to know that if you can reach one O, you're probably capable of having lots more immediately after—or, as the pros call it, multiple orgasms. Unfortunately, there isn't more recent research out there on this subject. But Vivienne Cass, Ph.
In fact, many women -- about one out of three -- have trouble reaching orgasm, periodwhen having sex with a partner. There are multiple factors at play here, not the least of which being it takes the average man a mere three to five minutes to orgasm, while most women need at least So just as she's getting warmed up, he blows his load and leaves her in a pleasure lurch.
The expectations surrounding giving and having orgasms can make people feel inadequate or even strangers to their own bodies, especially for those who have never had an orgasm. Everybody wants to have better orgasmslonger orgasmsfaster orgasmsmore intense orgasmsg-spot vs. Being able to get your partner or yourself to climax over and over again has become a standard qualifier for good sex versus bad sex.
SOME lucky ladies are fortunate enough to be able to easily achieve multiple orgasms, but is it actually possible for ALL women to do so? As many people know, the clitoris is extremely sensitive and has around 8, nerve endings, which is why it can be sent into overdrive and become unresponsive if it receives too much attention. Once a woman has simulated their clitoris and finished the most intense part of their initial orgasm, Dr Cass recommends turning the focus to the vagina, in order to climax again.
I am 37 years old, I'm 5'6" and about very healthy pounds, no meds or history. I have been with someone for 8 months now. I have never really taken the time to masturbate until about 7 months ago when my partner recommended it, after he was stunned he couldn't give me an orgasm after hours of trying multiple times.