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I wanted to find out what it is about swinging that keeps happily married women in the lifestyle. I kissed a girl and I liked it And apparently, she's not the only one.
Swingingsometimes called wife swappinghusband swapping or partner swappingis sexual activity in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in such activities with others as a recreational or social activity. People may choose a swinging lifestyle for a variety of reasons. Many cite an increased quality and quantity of sex.
John has been personally and professionally involved in the world of swinging for decades, and I joined him in this adventure several years ago. One of my very favorite things about colette is all the patrons. John and I have the opportunity to visit with couples every single weekend at any one of our clubs, and what I have noticed lately is that there are more couples in attendance who have been married 20 plus years beginning to dip their toes into the swinging pool.
As a Relationship Counsellor, I have seen an increase in the number of couples and individuals who engage in swinging as part of their lifestyle. Although sometimes applied to the general practice of non-monogamous sexual activities within relationships, for most people swinging applies particularly to couples exchanging of sexual partners as a social activity. Most couples who engage in swinging are otherwise ordinary people, who have made the choice to keep love and sex at least partly separate.
This is all part of the joy you may experience in learning and deepening your relationship through swinging. If you want to jump to the cons, click here. This is my favorite pro because it brings the topic of sex off the shelf and pushes it to the front of the line.
Each couple in the lifestyle makes different rules to protect their relationship. These rules will often evolve over time to better match what works for their relationship. Some swingers may not like your rules or you might not like their rules.
Lee Blackley, 31, married girlfriend Terri, 27, in May after three years of dating where they regularly romped with other couples. The pair, who previously told The Sun of their unconventional relationshipsaid they have no plans to stop their illicit encounters. On the contrary, they say swinging reinforces their relationship — and they even enjoyed a four-way sex session on their honeymoon in Spain earlier this year.
Some argue that humans are predisposed to be promiscuous, and sleep with plenty of people. Here are some of the top reasons people become swingers. Sometimes a couple realizes they both have a strong desire to experience other sexual partners, but not for lack of loving each other or still wanting to have sex with each other.
We have been together for a decade, married for years. We tell each other just about everything and there is no one I like hanging out with more than my husband. This space is so safe, so sacred, and so honest that it has given permission to the expression of innermost longings, fantasies, and daydreams.